Hmm. Thanks for the link to that wikipedia page. Interesting...
...the definitions given on that wikipedia page seem to imply that I’m strongly queer and/or andro*, at least in terms of my experiences and gender-identity. Had never noticed nor cared (which, apparently, is a component of some variants of andro-somethings). I’m (very visibly) biologically male and “identify” (socially) as male for obvious reasons (AKA don’t care if miscategorized, as long as the stereotyping isn’t too harmful), and I’m attracted mostly to females because of instinct (I guess?) and practical issues (e.g. disdain of anal sex).
Oh well, one more thing to consider when trying to figure out why people get confused by my behaviors. I’ve always (in recent years anyway) thought of myself as “human with penis”.
Same here. (But one of the reasons why I identify as male in spite of being somewhat psychologically androgynous is that I take exception with the notion that if someone doesn’t have sufficiently masculine (feminine) traits, he (she) is not a ‘real’ man (woman). And I’m almost exclusively attracted to females, almost exclusively because of ‘instinct’ (a.k.a. males just don’t give me a boner; is there a better word than “instinct”?) but also because I’d like to have biological children some day.)
Maybe the next survey should include the Bem Sex Role Inventory. (According to this, I’m slightly above median for both masculinity and femininity, and slightly more feminine than masculine.)
Hmm. Thanks for the link to that wikipedia page. Interesting...
...the definitions given on that wikipedia page seem to imply that I’m strongly queer and/or andro*, at least in terms of my experiences and gender-identity. Had never noticed nor cared (which, apparently, is a component of some variants of andro-somethings). I’m (very visibly) biologically male and “identify” (socially) as male for obvious reasons (AKA don’t care if miscategorized, as long as the stereotyping isn’t too harmful), and I’m attracted mostly to females because of instinct (I guess?) and practical issues (e.g. disdain of anal sex).
Oh well, one more thing to consider when trying to figure out why people get confused by my behaviors. I’ve always (in recent years anyway) thought of myself as “human with penis”.
If you can’t think of practical ways for two people with penises to have sex that don’t involve anal, you might just need better porn.
Haha, true.
Then again, I’m guessing looking at actual male-male porn would decrease the odds of that happening—which I’ve never done yet.
Same here. (But one of the reasons why I identify as male in spite of being somewhat psychologically androgynous is that I take exception with the notion that if someone doesn’t have sufficiently masculine (feminine) traits, he (she) is not a ‘real’ man (woman). And I’m almost exclusively attracted to females, almost exclusively because of ‘instinct’ (a.k.a. males just don’t give me a boner; is there a better word than “instinct”?) but also because I’d like to have biological children some day.)
Maybe the next survey should include the Bem Sex Role Inventory. (According to this, I’m slightly above median for both masculinity and femininity, and slightly more feminine than masculine.)