If you don’t understand what that means, than it would be useful to work on understanding. If you don’t understand the position of the person with whom you argue you can’t know whether or not you agree with them.
I am not trying to have a side conversation.
Clarifying where disagreement is isn’t a side conversation. Do you believe that there are meaningful differences in parenting quality of US middle class people? (When genetics are factored out)
If you don’t understand what that means, than it would be useful to work on understanding. If you don’t understand the position of the person with whom you argue you can’t know whether or not you agree with them.
Clarifying where disagreement is isn’t a side conversation. Do you believe that there are meaningful differences in parenting quality of US middle class people? (When genetics are factored out)
I don’t agree that it is relevant and it skewers the conversation in a direction that I do not think is important or obscures the discussion.