Pretty much everyone is saying that this is a case of mismatched expectations: obviously from your point of view, it’s others who are wrong. I would object that rationality requires you to stop your immediate reaction and look at the thing from a meta-level: you’ve come to a place expecting something, instead it’s another. Are you going to yell at reality and try to shame it into being something else? You should simply re-evaluate your model and decide from there your course of action.
Pretty much everyone is saying that this is a case of mismatched expectations: obviously from your point of view, it’s others who are wrong.
I would object that rationality requires you to stop your immediate reaction and look at the thing from a meta-level: you’ve come to a place expecting something, instead it’s another. Are you going to yell at reality and try to shame it into being something else?
You should simply re-evaluate your model and decide from there your course of action.
Of course they are wrong. Because if you examine everything at the meta-level, and forget about being pragmatic, you will starve.