Well, what are your beliefs and feelings about intimacy and sex? If you imagine yourself accepting the offers, what would it mean about you? Imagine it like a movie, and then what your parents (or other important people) would say about that.
(I suspect there is something negative, either directly about you e.g. “if you don’t lead, then you are weak”, or about the girl and then indirectly about you e.g. “if she initiates, she is a slut; and you are a loser if you date a slut”.)
This is a complicated clusterfuck and I don’t know where to begin
Imagine it like a movie, and then what your parents (or other important people) would say about that.
I would feel kinda ashamed
(I suspect there is something negative, either directly about you e.g. “if you don’t lead, then you are weak”, or about the girl and then indirectly about you e.g. “if she initiates, she is a slut; and you are a loser if you date a slut”.)
I feel I can totally identify with this suggestion. But I’m not sure if that’s just cause I’m suggestable.
Well, what are your beliefs and feelings about intimacy and sex? If you imagine yourself accepting the offers, what would it mean about you? Imagine it like a movie, and then what your parents (or other important people) would say about that.
(I suspect there is something negative, either directly about you e.g. “if you don’t lead, then you are weak”, or about the girl and then indirectly about you e.g. “if she initiates, she is a slut; and you are a loser if you date a slut”.)
This is a complicated clusterfuck and I don’t know where to begin
I would feel kinda ashamed
I feel I can totally identify with this suggestion. But I’m not sure if that’s just cause I’m suggestable.
Thank you so much for you insight.