I guess it generalizes to: if there’s an unsolved problem and the solution looks obvious, you’re probably missing something.
Beware the natural tendency towards overconfidence
It’s easiest to think of the easy happy path. The problems are usually more nuanced and less mentally available.
Other people thinking about it are probably not being dumb or thoughtless.
I don’t think it’s caused me to overthink in that if something seems one dimensional it’s probably being underthought.
There are learnable exceptions, like a friend might have a mental blindspot to a certain kind of solution, or you might consistently overthink certain situations.
To be honest, I’m still not a great listener because I haven’t squashed the urge to think of advice before empathizing.
I guess it generalizes to: if there’s an unsolved problem and the solution looks obvious, you’re probably missing something.
Beware the natural tendency towards overconfidence
It’s easiest to think of the easy happy path. The problems are usually more nuanced and less mentally available.
Other people thinking about it are probably not being dumb or thoughtless.
I don’t think it’s caused me to overthink in that if something seems one dimensional it’s probably being underthought.
There are learnable exceptions, like a friend might have a mental blindspot to a certain kind of solution, or you might consistently overthink certain situations.
To be honest, I’m still not a great listener because I haven’t squashed the urge to think of advice before empathizing.