PUA and Last Minute Resistance: I have no idea why PUA gets its bad reputation from negging when something like this was easy to find “Distract her thoughts with banter: It’s very simple to distract her logical mind… just don’t answer questions, deflect them. If she says “Where do you live” say “Oh, it’s like 5 minutes away”. Keep the conversation flowing and she will be fine.”
This one has an explicit “no means no”, but a strong recommendation to distract her from anything short of an emphatic no.
This one is interesting—it puts seduction in the category of salesmanship, and has some clue about why being manipulated isn’t fun.
I recommend Confessions of a Pickup Artist Chaser to give some idea of the range of thought and technique in the PUA communities. Chapter 3 covers PUA and Last Minute Resistance, and is an excellent description of how to not pressure people into behavior they don’t want. Key points: withdrawing from connection counts as pressure. If you respect the person and they need time to process what’s going on, give them that time.
PUA and Last Minute Resistance: I have no idea why PUA gets its bad reputation from negging when something like this was easy to find “Distract her thoughts with banter: It’s very simple to distract her logical mind… just don’t answer questions, deflect them. If she says “Where do you live” say “Oh, it’s like 5 minutes away”. Keep the conversation flowing and she will be fine.”
This one has an explicit “no means no”, but a strong recommendation to distract her from anything short of an emphatic no.
This one is interesting—it puts seduction in the category of salesmanship, and has some clue about why being manipulated isn’t fun.
I recommend Confessions of a Pickup Artist Chaser to give some idea of the range of thought and technique in the PUA communities. Chapter 3 covers PUA and Last Minute Resistance, and is an excellent description of how to not pressure people into behavior they don’t want. Key points: withdrawing from connection counts as pressure. If you respect the person and they need time to process what’s going on, give them that time.