Strong upvote to philh, and strong pushback on FinalFormal.
Not on the fact that FinalFormal is describing a true thing. I think FinalFormal is accurately representing a very common perspective.
But pushback on the normative nature of FinalFormal’s comment. FinalFormal seems to me to be saying “come on, play into this dynamic” and N O P E.
(That link is an entire essay on how the ambiguity is bad.)
Strong upvote to philh, and strong pushback on FinalFormal.
Not on the fact that FinalFormal is describing a true thing. I think FinalFormal is accurately representing a very common perspective.
But pushback on the normative nature of FinalFormal’s comment. FinalFormal seems to me to be saying “come on, play into this dynamic” and N O P E.
(That link is an entire essay on how the ambiguity is bad.)