How do you know she didn’t just get more upvotes than downvotes?
As an extreme example: if one person gets 105 upvotes and 100 downvotes, and another gets 100 upvotes and 105 downvotes, that’s not much of a difference.
Don’t assume too much about votes. Some are probably from people who think you can do better. You show a lot of self awareness by describing yourself as “scoff[ing]”, you’re just a small step away from upvoted comments expressing the same opinion of yours on this same topic.
How do you know she didn’t just get more upvotes than downvotes?
As an extreme example: if one person gets 105 upvotes and 100 downvotes, and another gets 100 upvotes and 105 downvotes, that’s not much of a difference.
Don’t assume too much about votes. Some are probably from people who think you can do better. You show a lot of self awareness by describing yourself as “scoff[ing]”, you’re just a small step away from upvoted comments expressing the same opinion of yours on this same topic.