Huh, that sounds like the sympathy/empathy split, except I think reversed; empathy is feeling pain from other’s distress vs. sympathy is understanding other’s pain as it reflects your own distress. Specifically mitigating ‘feeling pain from other’s distress’ as applied to a broad sphere of ‘others’ has been a significant part of my turn away from an altruistic outlook; this wasn’t hard, since human brains naturally discount distant people and I already preferred getting news through text, which keeps distant people’s distress viscerally distant.
Huh, that sounds like the sympathy/empathy split, except I think reversed; empathy is feeling pain from other’s distress vs. sympathy is understanding other’s pain as it reflects your own distress. Specifically mitigating ‘feeling pain from other’s distress’ as applied to a broad sphere of ‘others’ has been a significant part of my turn away from an altruistic outlook; this wasn’t hard, since human brains naturally discount distant people and I already preferred getting news through text, which keeps distant people’s distress viscerally distant.