Thank you, I’ll try.
I prefer warm to pretty in winter and khaki/colourful (depending on whether I am with my kid or not) to neat. I prefer pants to skirts. Generally, I like only a narrow subset of how I can look, and get annoyed when people tell me to be more flexible. My thinking goes like ‘can’t they see I have already defined myself and have no wish to follow aging conventions?’ (I’m 29.) It’s a bug and not a feature, but I find other people’s clothing so… hopeless, I guess, so muted, that I can’t remember the last timeI envied someone.
Thank you, I’ll try. I prefer warm to pretty in winter and khaki/colourful (depending on whether I am with my kid or not) to neat. I prefer pants to skirts. Generally, I like only a narrow subset of how I can look, and get annoyed when people tell me to be more flexible. My thinking goes like ‘can’t they see I have already defined myself and have no wish to follow aging conventions?’ (I’m 29.) It’s a bug and not a feature, but I find other people’s clothing so… hopeless, I guess, so muted, that I can’t remember the last timeI envied someone.
If that’s true it’s likely that it you could be more specific then pants>skirts and khaki/colorful.
On the other hand those seems pretty straightforward rules for your relatives. Don’t gift her skirts and make sure it’s either khaki or colorful.