Past friends and family might actually judge quite harshly.
And will certainly judge more harshly if it seems like a rash decision, which they will if you haven’t talked about before or asked anyone’s opinion. More importantly, it’s about collecting data—even if they lie, they’ll reveal information about their beliefs and expectations. You need this data!
Any nosejob should wait until trying out the really good cost/benefit propositions.
That’s not quite what I meant—there’s no reason not to both if you’re convinced that both are beneficial. I meant to suggest that this is an avenue to gather evidence about how (some) people treat you differently based on appearance, and that evidence can be used in your calculation about a nose job.
Don’t serialize when you can be parallel. Don’t blindly wait to try out one intervention at a time. DO wait when you have a reason, when there’s data you need from the sequencing and separation of interventions.
And will certainly judge more harshly if it seems like a rash decision, which they will if you haven’t talked about before or asked anyone’s opinion. More importantly, it’s about collecting data—even if they lie, they’ll reveal information about their beliefs and expectations. You need this data!
That’s not quite what I meant—there’s no reason not to both if you’re convinced that both are beneficial. I meant to suggest that this is an avenue to gather evidence about how (some) people treat you differently based on appearance, and that evidence can be used in your calculation about a nose job.
Don’t serialize when you can be parallel. Don’t blindly wait to try out one intervention at a time. DO wait when you have a reason, when there’s data you need from the sequencing and separation of interventions.