Being (more) conventionally attractive has advantages. Being known to focus on physical attractiveness has disadvantages. And most importantly, attractiveness is different for different evaluators. It’s quite likely that even if a change is judged as an improvement by your average contact, it can be significantly negative to some important people (your family, close friends who liked you how you were, people you have yet to meet who just prefer natural looks).
That is a good point. Past friends and family might actually judge quite harshly. My mom would get it, but otherwise… One quibble, it is hard to notice a nosejob for a new person. Unlike lip injections or whatever, it should look like you were born with a straighter nose. All the other alterations have too many downsides to consider.
You’re not looking for a number or a final result from that, you’re looking for general attitudes and specific reaction to your options.
Interesting point
Also skewed, but once you recognize that you don’t want averages, but distributions of attitude across groups, that’s not too harmful to your choice.
That is true as well. I have been using tinder matches for advice on fashion choices.
You can also collect some evidence by investing smaller amounts of time/money and seeing if that has any noticeable effect—which may be valuable on their own as well. Pay for a really nice haircut, and hire a personal shopper or consultant for a wardrobe upgrade.
Very very true. I have already begun buying an all new wardrobe. Any nosejob should wait until trying out the really good cost/benefit propositions.
Past friends and family might actually judge quite harshly.
And will certainly judge more harshly if it seems like a rash decision, which they will if you haven’t talked about before or asked anyone’s opinion. More importantly, it’s about collecting data—even if they lie, they’ll reveal information about their beliefs and expectations. You need this data!
Any nosejob should wait until trying out the really good cost/benefit propositions.
That’s not quite what I meant—there’s no reason not to both if you’re convinced that both are beneficial. I meant to suggest that this is an avenue to gather evidence about how (some) people treat you differently based on appearance, and that evidence can be used in your calculation about a nose job.
Don’t serialize when you can be parallel. Don’t blindly wait to try out one intervention at a time. DO wait when you have a reason, when there’s data you need from the sequencing and separation of interventions.
That is a good point. Past friends and family might actually judge quite harshly. My mom would get it, but otherwise… One quibble, it is hard to notice a nosejob for a new person. Unlike lip injections or whatever, it should look like you were born with a straighter nose. All the other alterations have too many downsides to consider.
Interesting point
Very very true. I have already begun buying an all new wardrobe. Any nosejob should wait until trying out the really good cost/benefit propositions.
And will certainly judge more harshly if it seems like a rash decision, which they will if you haven’t talked about before or asked anyone’s opinion. More importantly, it’s about collecting data—even if they lie, they’ll reveal information about their beliefs and expectations. You need this data!
That’s not quite what I meant—there’s no reason not to both if you’re convinced that both are beneficial. I meant to suggest that this is an avenue to gather evidence about how (some) people treat you differently based on appearance, and that evidence can be used in your calculation about a nose job.
Don’t serialize when you can be parallel. Don’t blindly wait to try out one intervention at a time. DO wait when you have a reason, when there’s data you need from the sequencing and separation of interventions.