I agree with Jack: large eyes embedded in a small puffy face are general mammalian triggers for cuteness. Humans thinking that kittens are cute is just an accident.
Though ‘accident’ isn’t the right word. Mammalian mechanisms are simply very general among mammals and robust. I read this somewhere and assimilated it as obviously true. And then I experienced how true it was when I had kids.
We’re always ‘being mammals’ but I guess we’re somewhat desensitized to the mammalian things we do every day. During pregnancy, childbirth and raising a child, a whole slew of new behaviors are activated and it’s just amazing to realize the extent to which behaviors are instinctual and rely on physical mechanisms like tactile stimulation, visual cues and internal timers.
Breast-feeding of course. Did you know that breast-feeding is an interactive activity, where the baby has to suck of course, but also the mother needs to ‘let down’ the milk supply? Tactile stimulation (like sucking or kneading) will trigger ‘let down’, but also it can be triggered if the mother just thinks about her baby being cute. Women often have a lot of trouble ‘pumping’ milk for later use because the apparatus doesn’t mimic human babies very well. Even if it mimics the way a child sucks during the first 30 seconds, the longer scale 5-15 minute temporal dynamics are missing. There’s a difference between the milking patterns at the beginning and the end.
A few months before birth there’s the nesting behavior, and then the timing of labor is a very complex, oscillatory process with many false and half starts.
Other timing mechanisms include the biological clock that makes women more inclined to want children, ovulation, the multi-stage birth event itself, lactation rhythyms as mothers and babies fine-tune and adjust over weeks and months. One of the most amazing examples of this, for me, was that I noticed a 1-3 minute pattern in the way I attended to my children. Especially someplace where they were amused and relatively safe but possibly in and out of sight, like at the park. For 1 to 2 minutes, I would just think my own thoughts, possibly chat on the phone or look through a magazine. After about 2 minutes, I noticed a growing anxiety that would not be relieved until I spotted my child. found this very curious and played around with it, deliberately not looking for my child for small periods of time to determine how regular this mechanism was. It seemed very regular.
I agree with Jack: large eyes embedded in a small puffy face are general mammalian triggers for cuteness. Humans thinking that kittens are cute is just an accident.
Then I repeat my question: please give examples of non-primate mammalian behaviors that indicate the animal found an animal of a different species “cute”.
A second question: does your theory allows distinguishing between “cuteness” reaction and nurturing/baby-raising protective behavior?
A second question: does your theory allows distinguishing between “cuteness” reaction and nurturing/baby-raising protective behavior?
Mine doesn’t. I think that instinctual mechanisms for “nurturing/baby-raising protective behavior” is a really big deal for mammals, so much so that the mechanisms have a tendency to be overly robust. (E.g., some men lactate.) However, I would defer to an expert on this, and would ask one (read a book) if something rested upon the question.
please give examples of non-primate mammalian behaviors that indicate the animal found an animal of a different species “cute”.
I look forward to the day when we can scan an animal brain and see what they think and feel. Till then, I can’t comment on whether animals think their babies are ‘cute’. There’s no doubt though that nurturing/baby-raising protective behavior is triggered across species. However it seems context-dependent: the parenting animal must have reason to consider the baby part of the family. So domesticated animals are likely to show this behavior to other pets and babies. (My cat tried to teach my first baby how to hunt when she started crawling, but didn’t bother with the second.) Birds will take care of other birds if they’re in the nest, etc. And of course there’s Tarzan, which might have been based on some kind of observation of this kind.
I look forward to the day when we can scan an animal brain and see what they think and feel. Till then, I can’t comment on whether animals think their babies are ‘cute’.
I think ‘response-to-cute-stimuli’ can be usefully defined on a behavioral level too.
I suggest this definition: the animal is interested in the cute-animal, often despite being strangers; it spends time looking at it or touching it, plays with it or talks to it (depending on the animal’s species-typical behavior). But it eventually forgets about it, leaves it behind (or allows it to depart), and does not protect or feed it—as it would an adopted baby. Doing these last things goes beyond “owww it’s cute!” and constitutes parenting behavior.
The question is—do animals reliably exhibit non-parenting behavior of the sort described above, and towards what patterns of other animals?
There are a number of stories of mammals ‘adopting’ babies of other species in zoos. Here’s one example. There seem to have been some misleading emails including pictures related to this story but as far as I can tell it is true that there have been instances of both a pig raising tiger cubs and a tiger raising piglets.
I agree with Jack: large eyes embedded in a small puffy face are general mammalian triggers for cuteness. Humans thinking that kittens are cute is just an accident.
Though ‘accident’ isn’t the right word. Mammalian mechanisms are simply very general among mammals and robust. I read this somewhere and assimilated it as obviously true. And then I experienced how true it was when I had kids.
We’re always ‘being mammals’ but I guess we’re somewhat desensitized to the mammalian things we do every day. During pregnancy, childbirth and raising a child, a whole slew of new behaviors are activated and it’s just amazing to realize the extent to which behaviors are instinctual and rely on physical mechanisms like tactile stimulation, visual cues and internal timers.
Breast-feeding of course. Did you know that breast-feeding is an interactive activity, where the baby has to suck of course, but also the mother needs to ‘let down’ the milk supply? Tactile stimulation (like sucking or kneading) will trigger ‘let down’, but also it can be triggered if the mother just thinks about her baby being cute. Women often have a lot of trouble ‘pumping’ milk for later use because the apparatus doesn’t mimic human babies very well. Even if it mimics the way a child sucks during the first 30 seconds, the longer scale 5-15 minute temporal dynamics are missing. There’s a difference between the milking patterns at the beginning and the end.
A few months before birth there’s the nesting behavior, and then the timing of labor is a very complex, oscillatory process with many false and half starts.
Other timing mechanisms include the biological clock that makes women more inclined to want children, ovulation, the multi-stage birth event itself, lactation rhythyms as mothers and babies fine-tune and adjust over weeks and months. One of the most amazing examples of this, for me, was that I noticed a 1-3 minute pattern in the way I attended to my children. Especially someplace where they were amused and relatively safe but possibly in and out of sight, like at the park. For 1 to 2 minutes, I would just think my own thoughts, possibly chat on the phone or look through a magazine. After about 2 minutes, I noticed a growing anxiety that would not be relieved until I spotted my child. found this very curious and played around with it, deliberately not looking for my child for small periods of time to determine how regular this mechanism was. It seemed very regular.
Then I repeat my question: please give examples of non-primate mammalian behaviors that indicate the animal found an animal of a different species “cute”.
A second question: does your theory allows distinguishing between “cuteness” reaction and nurturing/baby-raising protective behavior?
Mine doesn’t. I think that instinctual mechanisms for “nurturing/baby-raising protective behavior” is a really big deal for mammals, so much so that the mechanisms have a tendency to be overly robust. (E.g., some men lactate.) However, I would defer to an expert on this, and would ask one (read a book) if something rested upon the question.
I look forward to the day when we can scan an animal brain and see what they think and feel. Till then, I can’t comment on whether animals think their babies are ‘cute’. There’s no doubt though that nurturing/baby-raising protective behavior is triggered across species. However it seems context-dependent: the parenting animal must have reason to consider the baby part of the family. So domesticated animals are likely to show this behavior to other pets and babies. (My cat tried to teach my first baby how to hunt when she started crawling, but didn’t bother with the second.) Birds will take care of other birds if they’re in the nest, etc. And of course there’s Tarzan, which might have been based on some kind of observation of this kind.
I think ‘response-to-cute-stimuli’ can be usefully defined on a behavioral level too.
I suggest this definition: the animal is interested in the cute-animal, often despite being strangers; it spends time looking at it or touching it, plays with it or talks to it (depending on the animal’s species-typical behavior). But it eventually forgets about it, leaves it behind (or allows it to depart), and does not protect or feed it—as it would an adopted baby. Doing these last things goes beyond “owww it’s cute!” and constitutes parenting behavior.
The question is—do animals reliably exhibit non-parenting behavior of the sort described above, and towards what patterns of other animals?
There are a number of stories of mammals ‘adopting’ babies of other species in zoos. Here’s one example. There seem to have been some misleading emails including pictures related to this story but as far as I can tell it is true that there have been instances of both a pig raising tiger cubs and a tiger raising piglets.
I have to admit, I wouldn’t have thought of this.