My general experience has been that “I don’t know, but I’ll find out”, said to someone currently equal or lower status than me, clearly but mildly correlates with most of the low status behavior you mentioned. I’m not as sure how it affects people higher status than me, since I don’t have as many of those relationships / data points.
So I continue my assertion that, yes, it’s high status, not merely socially rewarding. I still suspect this is a weird and unusual set of experiences, and probably has to do with how I position “I don’t know” relative to others.
Yes, “high status” being the inflated does seem to be the crux of the matter.
Socially rewarding behaviors that, ceritus paribus are low status.
Saying “please” or “thankyou”.
Listening to what someone is saying. Even more if you deign to comprehend and accept their point.
Saluting.
Doing what someone asks.
Using careful expression to ensure you don’t offend people.
My general experience has been that “I don’t know, but I’ll find out”, said to someone currently equal or lower status than me, clearly but mildly correlates with most of the low status behavior you mentioned. I’m not as sure how it affects people higher status than me, since I don’t have as many of those relationships / data points.
So I continue my assertion that, yes, it’s high status, not merely socially rewarding. I still suspect this is a weird and unusual set of experiences, and probably has to do with how I position “I don’t know” relative to others.