I suspect “it depends” is going to dominate here. I’d argue that for many people, parental health (including sleep resiliency) is most important for young kids, and income/wisdom is more important for tween/teen kids.
I’m also very unwilling to have opinions generally about “earlier” or “later” without reference points—specifics matter. For people in the Western Intellectual class (for whom a university degree and a white-collar job is the default), I’d recommend that 23-27 is a good target, with delays of up to 5 years being quite reasonable, but not first-best for most).
Please do discount my opinion—my wife and I chose not to have kids. This is based on observations and discussions with quite a few people in my extended friends circle, some who had kids “early” (only one at 19, but lots in early 20s), and a lot who had kids “late” (29-35, and one at 43!). Each has specific joys and frustrations and on balance I hear minimal “I wish I’d...” from the earlier crowd.
Also, and importantly, there are almost always overriding factors that make the optimization of parent’s age at birth to be at best a secondary concern. When you find to and agree with your partner and have a stable/trusted situation such that you feel ABLE to commit to having kids is far more important than statistical benefits of age band. Thus, my advice: “when you’ve decided to have kids with this person, my recommendation is not to delay much”.
I suspect “it depends” is going to dominate here. I’d argue that for many people, parental health (including sleep resiliency) is most important for young kids, and income/wisdom is more important for tween/teen kids.
I’m also very unwilling to have opinions generally about “earlier” or “later” without reference points—specifics matter. For people in the Western Intellectual class (for whom a university degree and a white-collar job is the default), I’d recommend that 23-27 is a good target, with delays of up to 5 years being quite reasonable, but not first-best for most).
Please do discount my opinion—my wife and I chose not to have kids. This is based on observations and discussions with quite a few people in my extended friends circle, some who had kids “early” (only one at 19, but lots in early 20s), and a lot who had kids “late” (29-35, and one at 43!). Each has specific joys and frustrations and on balance I hear minimal “I wish I’d...” from the earlier crowd.
Also, and importantly, there are almost always overriding factors that make the optimization of parent’s age at birth to be at best a secondary concern. When you find to and agree with your partner and have a stable/trusted situation such that you feel ABLE to commit to having kids is far more important than statistical benefits of age band. Thus, my advice: “when you’ve decided to have kids with this person, my recommendation is not to delay much”.