Basically it happens this way because it is in the parents interests for it to happen this way.
Plausible deniability for the adults, who have a shared interest in the welfare of their children, but have otherwise been opposed and have a lot of mistrust to overcome. It’s a first step they can back out of without losing face.
Plausible deniability for the adults, who have a shared interest in the welfare of their children, but have otherwise been opposed and have a lot of mistrust to overcome. It’s a first step they can back out of without losing face.