If you were the unwanted guest, would you leave faster when validated or when invalidated?
Uh, second one, definitely. Obviously. (Haven’t you ever been an unwanted guest? Like, in real life?)
You get to live and feel and experience being the unwanted guest because you are the one having the insecurity, the one being insecure.
This isn’t really how feelings work.
You say that but people do keep mentioning they don’t like your commenting on lw. It doesn’t seem to make you leave.
Yes this is how feelings work. But don’t take my word for it. Check for yourself?
I don’t really know what this means. Could you elaborate? What does it mean to “check for myself”?
Uh, second one, definitely. Obviously. (Haven’t you ever been an unwanted guest? Like, in real life?)
This isn’t really how feelings work.
You say that but people do keep mentioning they don’t like your commenting on lw. It doesn’t seem to make you leave.
Yes this is how feelings work. But don’t take my word for it. Check for yourself?
I don’t really know what this means. Could you elaborate? What does it mean to “check for myself”?