I believe I understood this metaphor. However, it seems to me this isn’t a good place to be, since I predict the metaphor is only useful to ground discussion about the thing that’s actually taking place. It is that second step that hasn’t worked.
Let’s flip this around. How do you know when someone is Looking? Is there a way to do so based on external behaviours? What is your equivalent of the following?
“I’m watching you stare at your phone. If your Looking, your head would be up and your eyes would be pointed at me.”
You give a good example with the hair clipper, but I don’t know how much, if at all, that relates to Looking. If it is closely related I have a few follow-up questions that probably get to the crux of the issue I specifically am stuck on.
I believe I understood this metaphor. However, it seems to me this isn’t a good place to be, since I predict the metaphor is only useful to ground discussion about the thing that’s actually taking place. It is that second step that hasn’t worked.
Let’s flip this around. How do you know when someone is Looking? Is there a way to do so based on external behaviours? What is your equivalent of the following?
You give a good example with the hair clipper, but I don’t know how much, if at all, that relates to Looking. If it is closely related I have a few follow-up questions that probably get to the crux of the issue I specifically am stuck on.