After having learned and ingrained the principles of seduction, there is a simple checklist I (now subconsciously) mentally go through while I’m talking to a girl I’m interested in:
Attraction: have I demonstrated social value? (teased her, talked to many people in the room, told emotional stories, begin light touching)
Qualification: would I date a girl like this? (chat a bit about her hobbies, playfully challenge her)
Comfort: are we getting to know each other as people? (this is pretty much the same way you’d start any friendship, just talk about things you do and like without being boring—including rationality!)
Escalation: am I establishing this as a man-woman interaction? (ramping up the playful touches, spicing the conversation with explicit remarks about features I find attractive in her)
After having learned and ingrained the principles of seduction, there is a simple checklist I (now subconsciously) mentally go through while I’m talking to a girl I’m interested in:
Attraction: have I demonstrated social value? (teased her, talked to many people in the room, told emotional stories, begin light touching)
Qualification: would I date a girl like this? (chat a bit about her hobbies, playfully challenge her)
Comfort: are we getting to know each other as people? (this is pretty much the same way you’d start any friendship, just talk about things you do and like without being boring—including rationality!)
Escalation: am I establishing this as a man-woman interaction? (ramping up the playful touches, spicing the conversation with explicit remarks about features I find attractive in her)