This group is an opportunity to be exactly who you want to be without repercussion because you don’t plan on continuing the relationship anyway. What’s the worst that can happen? And what’s the best that can happen?
You could practice. Announce that you want to say something even though you fear it is unpopular or will be poorly received. Then express an opinion you know everyone already shares even though no one has said that explicitly. Warning: this will lower your status.
You could practice. Announce that you want to say something even though you fear it is unpopular or will be poorly received. Then express an opinion you know everyone already shares even though no one has said that explicitly. Warning: this will lower your status.
It may lower your status depending on your initial status and in what manner you speak. It can also be a step up from being someone whose mannerisms convey that they would be too intimidated to do so. Another potential outcome is that of being respected more but liked less.
Someday I will acquire the self-confidence to disagree with the group publicly… Someday.
Why not let Someday be Today?
This group is an opportunity to be exactly who you want to be without repercussion because you don’t plan on continuing the relationship anyway. What’s the worst that can happen? And what’s the best that can happen?
You could practice. Announce that you want to say something even though you fear it is unpopular or will be poorly received. Then express an opinion you know everyone already shares even though no one has said that explicitly. Warning: this will lower your status.
It may lower your status depending on your initial status and in what manner you speak. It can also be a step up from being someone whose mannerisms convey that they would be too intimidated to do so. Another potential outcome is that of being respected more but liked less.