If you’re having this experience, it might be helpful to find ways to actively combat this tendency. Probably more exposure to those sorts of groups would help.
If church advances my goals, I want to believe that church advances my goals, and the Way opposes my anger.
If church advances my goals, I want to believe that church advances my goals, and the Way opposes my anger.
Upvoted because this is exactly what I’m getting at. Many people are currently trying to convince me of why church doesn’t advance my goals...some of their arguments are valid, some I’ve already been over and weighed pros with cons, etc. But the reason I wrote this article was because my newfound intolerance to religion was bothering me.
I can’t imagine what the arguments are in support of “church doesn’t advance your goals”. What are they?
I know all sorts of arguments that “churches lead to all sorts of horrible political-social effects” and ones about “churches ruin some particular lives (imagine some closeted, self-hating homosexual who would have been happy in a secular background)”, but if you get something from going to church, and it’s your goal to do so… that seems very straight-forward.
It’s more like “you think going to church advances your goals, but you’re wrong because you haven’t taken into account the fact that going to church with irrational people makes you more irrational/insane.” I guess it’s a reasonable assumption that one of my goals is to become more rational, given that I’m on LW, but apparently people don’t give me the benefit of the doubt for having thought about that already on my own, and made a decision one way or another.
Probably more exposure to those sorts of groups would help.
My experience has always been that exposure to irritants makes the situation worse, not better. Controlled exposure- like in aversion therapy- might be useful, but I think a perspective change needs to be the first step.
If you’re having this experience, it might be helpful to find ways to actively combat this tendency. Probably more exposure to those sorts of groups would help.
If church advances my goals, I want to believe that church advances my goals, and the Way opposes my anger.
Upvoted because this is exactly what I’m getting at. Many people are currently trying to convince me of why church doesn’t advance my goals...some of their arguments are valid, some I’ve already been over and weighed pros with cons, etc. But the reason I wrote this article was because my newfound intolerance to religion was bothering me.
I can’t imagine what the arguments are in support of “church doesn’t advance your goals”. What are they?
I know all sorts of arguments that “churches lead to all sorts of horrible political-social effects” and ones about “churches ruin some particular lives (imagine some closeted, self-hating homosexual who would have been happy in a secular background)”, but if you get something from going to church, and it’s your goal to do so… that seems very straight-forward.
It’s more like “you think going to church advances your goals, but you’re wrong because you haven’t taken into account the fact that going to church with irrational people makes you more irrational/insane.” I guess it’s a reasonable assumption that one of my goals is to become more rational, given that I’m on LW, but apparently people don’t give me the benefit of the doubt for having thought about that already on my own, and made a decision one way or another.
My experience has always been that exposure to irritants makes the situation worse, not better. Controlled exposure- like in aversion therapy- might be useful, but I think a perspective change needs to be the first step.