It’s a good psychological indicator. If something is unflattering, and kind of painful to think about, usually it’s because I see elements of it in myself and don’t want to admit they’re there. If something is unflattering but it’s not painful to think about, that’s because it’s not threatening...because I have no worry at all that it’s true about me. (Although I might be wrong not to worry...my introspection isn’t always perfect.)
It’s a good psychological indicator. If something is unflattering, and kind of painful to think about, usually it’s because I see elements of it in myself and don’t want to admit they’re there. If something is unflattering but it’s not painful to think about, that’s because it’s not threatening...because I have no worry at all that it’s true about me. (Although I might be wrong not to worry...my introspection isn’t always perfect.)