No matter what verbal habits you get into, you’re going to prefer to be able to walk rather than hobble, to see rather than to not see, etc.
Those are common preferences, but not universal. Deaf people as a group/culture have a bit of a reputation in this area, for one, and then there’s transabled people...
Not that that’s really the point of avoiding the language. The point of avoiding the language is more along the lines of avoiding reinforcing the meme that people with those traits are less valuable and can be ignored when making plans. (Example, though a weak one. For a more concrete one: How accessible is your area? Try to go a day without using any stairs except the ones in your home, including e.g. stepping down off a sidewalk.)
Its true that there are no universal preferences, but ability is about as universal as you can get. The deaf community doesn’t prefer deafness to hearing, they just like having a community. If they genuinely preferred deafness to hearing they’d advocate destroying their hearing infants’ eardrums… but in fact they find that idea abhorrent. The existence of transabled has nothing to do with preferences, only with identity. The only major groups that prefer disability to ability are the practitioners of female genital mutilation… and their attitudes toward sexuality are pretty disordered.
I certainly agree that its important to avoid treating the disabled as having lower value as people but I don’t see how calling situations lame makes me devalue lame people and see them as a disability rather than as a person. I also don’t know what that has to do with sidewalk ramps. Surely that has more to do with efficient resourse allocation vs a desire to increase inclusivity… I don’t think the proper balance is obvious at all.
Now I certainly agree its important to value disabled people just like abled
Those are common preferences, but not universal. Deaf people as a group/culture have a bit of a reputation in this area, for one, and then there’s transabled people...
Not that that’s really the point of avoiding the language. The point of avoiding the language is more along the lines of avoiding reinforcing the meme that people with those traits are less valuable and can be ignored when making plans. (Example, though a weak one. For a more concrete one: How accessible is your area? Try to go a day without using any stairs except the ones in your home, including e.g. stepping down off a sidewalk.)
Its true that there are no universal preferences, but ability is about as universal as you can get. The deaf community doesn’t prefer deafness to hearing, they just like having a community. If they genuinely preferred deafness to hearing they’d advocate destroying their hearing infants’ eardrums… but in fact they find that idea abhorrent. The existence of transabled has nothing to do with preferences, only with identity. The only major groups that prefer disability to ability are the practitioners of female genital mutilation… and their attitudes toward sexuality are pretty disordered.
I certainly agree that its important to avoid treating the disabled as having lower value as people but I don’t see how calling situations lame makes me devalue lame people and see them as a disability rather than as a person. I also don’t know what that has to do with sidewalk ramps. Surely that has more to do with efficient resourse allocation vs a desire to increase inclusivity… I don’t think the proper balance is obvious at all.
Now I certainly agree its important to value disabled people just like abled