If you were Jimmy Butler, you might have needed to have kind of an antagonistic attitude toward other people to put in that kind of work without the encouragement of the people around you. He might have needed a sort of “fuck you” approach to get as good as he did. There’s a difference between having the kind of attitude that lets you get good, and the kind of attitude that encourages others to get as good as you.
If you were Jimmy Butler, you might have needed to have kind of an antagonistic attitude toward other people to put in that kind of work without the encouragement of the people around you. He might have needed a sort of “fuck you” approach to get as good as he did. There’s a difference between having the kind of attitude that lets you get good, and the kind of attitude that encourages others to get as good as you.