What’s an example of a “gene-environment interaction with parts of the environment that aren’t good at predicting the child’s moral development”?
Mimicking adult behavior even when the adult isn’t paying any attention to the child (and children with different genes having slightly different sorts of mimicry). Automatically changing purity norms in response to disease and perceived disease risk. Having a different outlook on the world if you always had plenty of food growing up. Children of athletic parents often being athletic too, which changes how they relate to their environment and changes their eventual lifestyle. Being genetically predisposed to alcoholism and then becoming an alcoholic. Learning a tonal language and then having a different relationship with music.
I’m not saying parents have no power. If you paid a bunch of parents to raise their children to love playing the piano, you’d probably get a significantly elevated rate of that value among the kids (guess: ~35% compared to a base rate of ~3%). Effortful and deliberate parenting works at a rate distinguishable from chance. My claim is more that almost all of value transmission isn’t like that, that you can raise kids without deliberately imparting your (or any) values and they’ll still end up pretty similar to you.
I think these are great counterpoints. Thanks for making them.
I still buy “the helicopter parent ‘outer alignment’ training regime is unwise for ‘aligning’ kids” and that deliberate parenting is better than chance. But possibly/probably not the primary factor. I haven’t yet read much data here so my views feel relatively unconstrained, beyond my “common sense.”
I think there’s an additional consideration with AI, though: We control the reward circuitry. If lots of variance in kid-alignment is due to genetic variation in reward circuitry or learning hyperparameters or whatever, then we also control that with AI, that is also part of understanding AI inductive biases.
Mimicking adult behavior even when the adult isn’t paying any attention to the child (and children with different genes having slightly different sorts of mimicry). Automatically changing purity norms in response to disease and perceived disease risk. Having a different outlook on the world if you always had plenty of food growing up. Children of athletic parents often being athletic too, which changes how they relate to their environment and changes their eventual lifestyle. Being genetically predisposed to alcoholism and then becoming an alcoholic. Learning a tonal language and then having a different relationship with music.
I’m not saying parents have no power. If you paid a bunch of parents to raise their children to love playing the piano, you’d probably get a significantly elevated rate of that value among the kids (guess: ~35% compared to a base rate of ~3%). Effortful and deliberate parenting works at a rate distinguishable from chance. My claim is more that almost all of value transmission isn’t like that, that you can raise kids without deliberately imparting your (or any) values and they’ll still end up pretty similar to you.
I think these are great counterpoints. Thanks for making them.
I still buy “the helicopter parent ‘outer alignment’ training regime is unwise for ‘aligning’ kids” and that deliberate parenting is better than chance. But possibly/probably not the primary factor. I haven’t yet read much data here so my views feel relatively unconstrained, beyond my “common sense.”
I think there’s an additional consideration with AI, though: We control the reward circuitry. If lots of variance in kid-alignment is due to genetic variation in reward circuitry or learning hyperparameters or whatever, then we also control that with AI, that is also part of understanding AI inductive biases.