The obsessive part of love only lasts for three or six months, so it’s not important in the long term.
There seem to be huge variations. For example I didn’t fully loose infatuation until the breakup (after 14 years). But on the other hand it wasn’t very ‘obsessive’ from/in the beginning either.
There seem to be huge variations. For example I didn’t fully loose infatuation until the breakup (after 14 years). But on the other hand it wasn’t very ‘obsessive’ from/in the beginning either.