Just because a match is perfect does not mean that people end up in a relationship. The dating process is still there and needed to actually get people to fall in love.
I don’t think it’s the most critical step for most people. Actually, going through the mating dance in a way that leads to feelings seems to me often more critical.
I think we might be valuing the importance of each step based on personal experience. But maybe they’re both equally important. ex. What’s more important for a cake, buying the ingredients or cooking it?
Just because a match is perfect does not mean that people end up in a relationship. The dating process is still there and needed to actually get people to fall in love.
What is your point?
Of course you will have to go through the rest of process, but you just solved the most critical step.
I don’t think it’s the most critical step for most people. Actually, going through the mating dance in a way that leads to feelings seems to me often more critical.
I think we might be valuing the importance of each step based on personal experience. But maybe they’re both equally important. ex. What’s more important for a cake, buying the ingredients or cooking it?
How can one improve the “mating dance” ?
The fact that arranged marriages out of pretty small polls of candidates can produce good marriages suggests that the match is not that central.
There’s a lot that has been written on dating.