I think this post is still mostly aligned with your goals, because the status quo is that everyone sort of assumes you can, and are supposed to, keep secrets. The tl;dr of this posts is “have metaconversations about secrecy instead of assuming everyone is has the same assumptions about them”.
I think this post is still mostly aligned with your goals, because the status quo is that everyone sort of assumes you can, and are supposed to, keep secrets. The tl;dr of this posts is “have metaconversations about secrecy instead of assuming everyone is has the same assumptions about them”.