Additional beds—simple mattresses you lean to the wall also work—in kid’s rooms work great. Also: Rocking chairs or other comfy chairs.
Being able to talk and cuddle is important—before sleep or at other times.
Make sure you get as much sleep as you can—it will often not be enough anyway. Finding ways for one partner to sleep while the other takes care of all kids is something you probably have to do if you don’t have a nanny or other people who can take care.
Having a feeding schedule is better than not having one.
Things I can confirm from our own for kids:
Additional beds—simple mattresses you lean to the wall also work—in kid’s rooms work great. Also: Rocking chairs or other comfy chairs.
Being able to talk and cuddle is important—before sleep or at other times.
Make sure you get as much sleep as you can—it will often not be enough anyway. Finding ways for one partner to sleep while the other takes care of all kids is something you probably have to do if you don’t have a nanny or other people who can take care.
Having a feeding schedule is better than not having one.