Is the likelihood of that greater than the likelihood of making them feel uncomfortable by abandoning them in their (recalled) trauma?
(I realize that “abandoning” is a very connotationally loaded term; I choose it here to counterbalance “intruding.” I’m happy to switch to less loaded terms if you prefer.)
Fair enough. I’m not at all sure that’s true—certainly when I’m experiencing recalled trauma I would far prefer that people sit quietly with me than that they politely leave, but of course one data point isn’t especially useful in this case—but certainly if it is true the rest follows. Do you have any data to support that?
Is the likelihood of that greater than the likelihood of making them feel uncomfortable by abandoning them in their (recalled) trauma?
(I realize that “abandoning” is a very connotationally loaded term; I choose it here to counterbalance “intruding.” I’m happy to switch to less loaded terms if you prefer.)
It’s likely to be worse than leaving them politely. Whether it’s worse than just getting up and leaving depends on the person and situation.
Fair enough. I’m not at all sure that’s true—certainly when I’m experiencing recalled trauma I would far prefer that people sit quietly with me than that they politely leave, but of course one data point isn’t especially useful in this case—but certainly if it is true the rest follows. Do you have any data to support that?
No data, just introspection and personal observation. Maybe it’s a variation in people’s preferences.