I recognise your concern acutely—I’ve had the same “one of those people who has poor social skills and yet wants me to behave more like them”—and I think stressing the “whenever you suspect you’d both benefit from them knowing” part of rule one much more seems like it would help a lot in that direction.
I recognise your concern acutely—I’ve had the same “one of those people who has poor social skills and yet wants me to behave more like them”—and I think stressing the “whenever you suspect you’d both benefit from them knowing” part of rule one much more seems like it would help a lot in that direction.