How is this victim blaming? As I interpret it the claim is that the person was probably NOT the victim of systematic downvoting but instead made a lot of comments that are counter to what people like to hear, creating the illusion of same.
a comment where I said “thanks” when somebody pointed out a formatting error in my comments
as being about saying things “counter to what people like to hear”. Which is why I didn’t interpret CAE_Jones as suggesting that that’s what was going on.
For what it’s worth, I agree with gjm that “flame-bait” was a poor choice of words on my part, and I understand how it could have been taken as victim-blaming in spite of my intentions.
I would prefer to see a little less victim-blaming here.
(I’m not sure whether you intended it as such—but that phrase “participation in flame-bait topics” sounds like it.)
That was not my intention. (If it’s any consolation, I participated in the same firestorm.)
How is this victim blaming? As I interpret it the claim is that the person was probably NOT the victim of systematic downvoting but instead made a lot of comments that are counter to what people like to hear, creating the illusion of same.
Hard to explain getting downvoted for
as being about saying things “counter to what people like to hear”. Which is why I didn’t interpret CAE_Jones as suggesting that that’s what was going on.
For what it’s worth, I agree with gjm that “flame-bait” was a poor choice of words on my part, and I understand how it could have been taken as victim-blaming in spite of my intentions.