It looks to me like your problem is getting other people to accept you. Your options seem to be: lie, follow their standards, and convince them to accept you without following their standards.
You can do a combination, like get them to accept some things, follow some standards, and lie about some things.
It looks to me like your problem is getting other people to accept you. Your options seem to be: lie, follow their standards, and convince them to accept you without following their standards.
You can do a combination, like get them to accept some things, follow some standards, and lie about some things.