Your concept of “reactivity” seems about as useful as phlogiston. It can explain anything in retrospect.
It is misuse of the concept that seems to be the problem here more so than the concept itself. I’m not sure about ‘strongest’ but being nonreactive, particularly not making reactions that are extreme or reveal emotion, is an obvious status signal. As a concept it may be somewhat clearer than the related ‘insecure’ label that is often used as both a description and an attack.
This is really a large part of my point. I think the misuse of the concept is the result of trying to prove that it is stronger than it actually is. I agree that, if defined more clearly, there may be status signals associated with reactivity, but these would not, in general, be strong than other types of status signals.
It is misuse of the concept that seems to be the problem here more so than the concept itself. I’m not sure about ‘strongest’ but being nonreactive, particularly not making reactions that are extreme or reveal emotion, is an obvious status signal. As a concept it may be somewhat clearer than the related ‘insecure’ label that is often used as both a description and an attack.
This is really a large part of my point. I think the misuse of the concept is the result of trying to prove that it is stronger than it actually is. I agree that, if defined more clearly, there may be status signals associated with reactivity, but these would not, in general, be strong than other types of status signals.