Any actual risk is almost always small and the mature thing to do is to feel this, but rolling a saving throw for Not Trying to Please Everyone Unless They’re Tagged as an Enemy — at least, that’s what not being triggered by this feels like to me — is really hard for some people.
This made me feel condescended to. Compare “being creeped on in this and that particular setting carries only very small objective risks, and the mature thing to do is feel this, but not trying to please everyone (or whatever is the analogous irrational decision policy here) is really hard for some people”.
This made me feel condescended to. Compare “being creeped on in this and that particular setting carries only very small objective risks, and the mature thing to do is feel this, but not trying to please everyone (or whatever is the analogous irrational decision policy here) is really hard for some people”.