it bothers me when advice is of the form, “Don’t do X” when the real rule is “don’t do X with low status”
(Mostly unrelated to your point)
Things become even more complicated when that rule means that doing X can work as a status signal (like a way of “acting confident”).
(Mostly unrelated to your point)
Things become even more complicated when that rule means that doing X can work as a status signal (like a way of “acting confident”).