It isn’t clear to me that the connotations of “oversensitive” as it’s used here are justified. Some people suffer, to greater or lesser degrees, in situations that I don’t. That doesn’t necessarily make them oversensitive, or me insensitive.
There are some things we, as a culture, are more sensitive to now than our predecessors were. That’s not necessarily a bad thing.
I don’t believe a rational person, in a situation where honesty causes suffering, necessarily prefers to be honest.
All of that said, I certainly support discouraging people from suffering, given the option. And I support discouraging people from claiming to suffer when they don’t. But I don’t support encouraging people to keep their mouths shut when they suffer. And I suspect that many social structures that ostensibly do the former in reality do the latter.
It isn’t clear to me that the connotations of “oversensitive” as it’s used here are justified. Some people suffer, to greater or lesser degrees, in situations that I don’t. That doesn’t necessarily make them oversensitive, or me insensitive.
There are some things we, as a culture, are more sensitive to now than our predecessors were. That’s not necessarily a bad thing.
I don’t believe a rational person, in a situation where honesty causes suffering, necessarily prefers to be honest.
All of that said, I certainly support discouraging people from suffering, given the option. And I support discouraging people from claiming to suffer when they don’t. But I don’t support encouraging people to keep their mouths shut when they suffer. And I suspect that many social structures that ostensibly do the former in reality do the latter.