The part that seems rude to me isn’t the “you made a mistake” part, it’s the way it was communicated. The subtext feels contentious (well that’s not quite the right word) in a way that easily meets the threshold I have for “I’d like to see less of that”.
The part that seems rude to me isn’t the “you made a mistake” part, it’s the way it was communicated. The subtext feels contentious (well that’s not quite the right word) in a way that easily meets the threshold I have for “I’d like to see less of that”.