Being raped wasn’t likely to further your genes’ goals in the ancestral environment, because it decreases your chances to reproduce consensually with a better mate and maybe have him provide resources for the kids.
You’re ignoring spousal rape, where a better mate is already only going to be had through the spouse’s death or hazardous subterfuge, and resource support for the kids can indeed be expected.
Being raped wasn’t likely to further your genes’ goals in the ancestral environment, because it decreases your chances to reproduce consensually with a better mate and maybe have him provide resources for the kids.
You’re ignoring spousal rape, where a better mate is already only going to be had through the spouse’s death or hazardous subterfuge, and resource support for the kids can indeed be expected.