Even for serious intellectual conversations, something I appreciate in this kind of advice is that it often encourages computational kindness. E.g. it’s much easier to answer a compact closed question like “which of these three options do you prefer” instead of an open question like “where should we go to eat for lunch”. The same applies to asking someone about their research; not every intellectual conversation benefits from big open questions like the Hamming Question.
Even for serious intellectual conversations, something I appreciate in this kind of advice is that it often encourages computational kindness. E.g. it’s much easier to answer a compact closed question like “which of these three options do you prefer” instead of an open question like “where should we go to eat for lunch”. The same applies to asking someone about their research; not every intellectual conversation benefits from big open questions like the Hamming Question.