Good question. Some differences off the top of my head:
On this forum, if people don’t have anything interesting to say, the default is to not say anything, and that’s totally fine. So the content has a much stronger bias toward being novel and substantive and not just people talking about their favorite parts of Game of Thrones or rehashing ancient discussions (though there is still a fair bit of that) or whatever.
On this forum, most discussions open with a relatively-long post or shortform laying out some ideas which at least the author is very interested in. The realtime version would be more like a memo session or a lecture followed by discussion.
The intellectual caliber of people on this forum (or at least active discussants) is considerably higher than e.g. people at Berkeley EA events, let alone normie events. Last event I went to with plausibly-higher-caliber-people overall was probably the ILLIAD conference.
In-person conversations have a tendency to slide toward the lowest denominator, as people chime in about whatever parts they (think they) understand, thereby biasing toward things more people (think they) understand. On LW, karma still pushes in that direction, but threading allows space for two people to go back-and-forth on topics the audience doesn’t really grock.
Not sure to what extent those account for the difference in experience.
Totally understand why this would be more interesting; I guess I would still fundamentally describe what we’re doing on the internet as conversation, with the same rules as you would describe above. It’s just that the conversation you can find here (or potentially on Twitter) is superstimulating compared to what you’re getting elsewhere. Which is good in the sense that it’s more fun, and I guess bad inasmuch as IRL conversation was fulfilling some social or networking role that online conversation wasn’t.
...How is that definition different than a realtime version of what you do when participating in this forum?
Good question. Some differences off the top of my head:
On this forum, if people don’t have anything interesting to say, the default is to not say anything, and that’s totally fine. So the content has a much stronger bias toward being novel and substantive and not just people talking about their favorite parts of Game of Thrones or rehashing ancient discussions (though there is still a fair bit of that) or whatever.
On this forum, most discussions open with a relatively-long post or shortform laying out some ideas which at least the author is very interested in. The realtime version would be more like a memo session or a lecture followed by discussion.
The intellectual caliber of people on this forum (or at least active discussants) is considerably higher than e.g. people at Berkeley EA events, let alone normie events. Last event I went to with plausibly-higher-caliber-people overall was probably the ILLIAD conference.
In-person conversations have a tendency to slide toward the lowest denominator, as people chime in about whatever parts they (think they) understand, thereby biasing toward things more people (think they) understand. On LW, karma still pushes in that direction, but threading allows space for two people to go back-and-forth on topics the audience doesn’t really grock.
Not sure to what extent those account for the difference in experience.
Totally understand why this would be more interesting; I guess I would still fundamentally describe what we’re doing on the internet as conversation, with the same rules as you would describe above. It’s just that the conversation you can find here (or potentially on Twitter) is superstimulating compared to what you’re getting elsewhere. Which is good in the sense that it’s more fun, and I guess bad inasmuch as IRL conversation was fulfilling some social or networking role that online conversation wasn’t.