What is wrong with her reasoning is that she doesn’t take in to account that she has a sufficient number of men interested in her without her doing anything to increase the number, but that is NOT the case for the other women whom she thinks are screwing up by not just taking the men who come their way naturally.
Have you read the section about mean and variance of this article? Doing “things explicitly to attract men [in general]” might not be as good as strategy as locating those men whom it would be the easiest for her to attract and focussing on them specifically.
Have you read the section about mean and variance of this article?
Even there the lukeprog speaks of consciously choosing one’s marketing style. Another person who would be better off with the hunter-gatherer sexual style? Or evidence that to market oneself consciously towards relationships is the norm?
What is wrong with her reasoning is that she doesn’t take in to account that she has a sufficient number of men interested in her without her doing anything to increase the number, but that is NOT the case for the other women whom she thinks are screwing up by not just taking the men who come their way naturally.
Have you read the section about mean and variance of this article? Doing “things explicitly to attract men [in general]” might not be as good as strategy as locating those men whom it would be the easiest for her to attract and focussing on them specifically.
Even there the lukeprog speaks of consciously choosing one’s marketing style. Another person who would be better off with the hunter-gatherer sexual style? Or evidence that to market oneself consciously towards relationships is the norm?
My point is not about whether or not your marketing is conscious, but about who its target is.