The threats weren’t from family members. And the very debate we are having is whether Steubenville is exceptional and unusual for what happened to the victim or simply because it became world famous.
General vs. specific is a reasonable point—but looking at headlines from news sources that we each already agree with is unlikely to help us resolve this issue. I could point to examples from the yesmeansyes blog, but obviously they filter the evidence to focus on what they find problematic. No doubt you could also point to mostly reputable news sources for examples that you find problematic.
Interesting that you accept that narrative as a full explanation, when the link it itself provides refers to one of the girls as a relative.
Indeed, one of the death threats mentioned was: “You ripped my family apart, you made my cousin cry, so when I see you bitch it’s going to be a homicide”
That sounds less like ”...women often find it more personally beneficial to go along with sexism than to try to fight the power, on the theory that if you’re going to be treated like a second-class citizen anyway, you might as well not get yelled at all the time for speaking up about it” and more like an immature teenager whose life was thrown into turmoil and is looking for somebody to lash out against.
Let’s talk Steubenville, but let’s compare like to like. What do you think public perception would be of two teenage girls who played with the genitals of an unconscious drunk guy?
What do you think public perception would be of two teenage girls who played with the genitals of an unconscious drunk guy?
In the local community, if the two girls were co-captains of the softball team, and the town was softball-mad in the way Steubenville is apparently football-mad (American football)?
Your claim is that society is more tolerant of non-consensual violence on males, so your claims are false if society is merely equally tolerant. (And society is too tolerant of all physically harmful pressure to non-consensually or semi-consensually risk physical harm—consider the enormous social pressure on athletes to “man up” and play through injury).
Regarding Slate magazine (the source I’ve been linking) - I was linking them only for the facts—I don’t expect you to agree with their analysis, and I don’t necessarily endorse the analysis in any particular. But the facts they report are facts.
Society is not equally tolerant. There are of course asshats no matter what, but you’re using the existence of some intolerance on both sides as “proof” that the level of intolerance is equal.
What do you think public perception would be of two teenage girls who played with the genitals of an unconscious drunk guy?
Tangentially, it might be similar to public perception of this writer. From the top-displayed comments:
This is rape. Period. You’re one sick fuck.
Also:
Yes, because when a man is aroused it’s totally not rape is it...Fucking hell you’re stupid...
Edit: It might be a poor example of a gender-symmetrical act, since one actually can “play with” male genitals non-sexually; I do it whenever I use the bathroom, and have it done whenever I have a medical chekcup.
Two comments don’t exactly constitute public perception.
Incidentally, some women also touch themselves when they use the restroom (incidence rate is who the fuck knows) for approximately the same reasons, and, uh, you’ve never heard complaints about speculums?
Ford, Liwag-McLamb, and Foley, 1998 (among other studies, such as “What is a typical rape? Effects of victim and participant gender in female and male rape perception” by Irina Anderson in the British Journal of Social Psychology) suggest that people are less likely to label a given incident rape if the victim is a male, more likely to regard a male victim as complicit in or partially responsible for the rape, and more likely to regard male victims of rape negatively (the term used in the literature is generally “homophobic response”).
Incidentally, as for the legal status of the two girls—it wouldn’t be rape. It wouldn’t even be sexual assault. It’s generally classified as sexual battery, and is a misdemeanor in most jurisdictions.
The threats weren’t from family members. And the very debate we are having is whether Steubenville is exceptional and unusual for what happened to the victim or simply because it became world famous.
General vs. specific is a reasonable point—but looking at headlines from news sources that we each already agree with is unlikely to help us resolve this issue. I could point to examples from the yesmeansyes blog, but obviously they filter the evidence to focus on what they find problematic. No doubt you could also point to mostly reputable news sources for examples that you find problematic.
Interesting that you accept that narrative as a full explanation, when the link it itself provides refers to one of the girls as a relative.
Indeed, one of the death threats mentioned was: “You ripped my family apart, you made my cousin cry, so when I see you bitch it’s going to be a homicide”
That sounds less like ”...women often find it more personally beneficial to go along with sexism than to try to fight the power, on the theory that if you’re going to be treated like a second-class citizen anyway, you might as well not get yelled at all the time for speaking up about it” and more like an immature teenager whose life was thrown into turmoil and is looking for somebody to lash out against.
Let’s talk Steubenville, but let’s compare like to like. What do you think public perception would be of two teenage girls who played with the genitals of an unconscious drunk guy?
In the local community, if the two girls were co-captains of the softball team, and the town was softball-mad in the way Steubenville is apparently football-mad (American football)?
I expect the locals in that hypothetical would react essentially like the locals in Steubenville—laughing at the victim, sharing humiliating pictures on social media, pressuring the victim not to complain. If the local reaction made national news, I expect criminal charges would be brought. Would the judge in the case warn the defendants “to have discussions about how you talk to your friends; how you record things on the social media so prevalent today; and how you conduct yourself when drinking is put upon you by your friends”? Don’t know.
Your claim is that society is more tolerant of non-consensual violence on males, so your claims are false if society is merely equally tolerant. (And society is too tolerant of all physically harmful pressure to non-consensually or semi-consensually risk physical harm—consider the enormous social pressure on athletes to “man up” and play through injury).
Regarding Slate magazine (the source I’ve been linking) - I was linking them only for the facts—I don’t expect you to agree with their analysis, and I don’t necessarily endorse the analysis in any particular. But the facts they report are facts.
It might be relevant that there’s no enthusiasm for any female sport comparable to the enthusiasm for some male sports.
This doesn’t mean I think the enthusiasm for male sports is an unmitigated advantage for males.
Criminal charges would be limited to a misdemeanor in most jurisdictions within the US.
I’ve referenced some studies here: http://lesswrong.com/lw/fmv/lw_women_submissions_on_misogyny/8r7f
Society is not equally tolerant. There are of course asshats no matter what, but you’re using the existence of some intolerance on both sides as “proof” that the level of intolerance is equal.
Tangentially, it might be similar to public perception of this writer. From the top-displayed comments:
Also:
Edit: It might be a poor example of a gender-symmetrical act, since one actually can “play with” male genitals non-sexually; I do it whenever I use the bathroom, and have it done whenever I have a medical chekcup.
Two comments don’t exactly constitute public perception.
Incidentally, some women also touch themselves when they use the restroom (incidence rate is who the fuck knows) for approximately the same reasons, and, uh, you’ve never heard complaints about speculums?
Ford, Liwag-McLamb, and Foley, 1998 (among other studies, such as “What is a typical rape? Effects of victim and participant gender in female and male rape perception” by Irina Anderson in the British Journal of Social Psychology) suggest that people are less likely to label a given incident rape if the victim is a male, more likely to regard a male victim as complicit in or partially responsible for the rape, and more likely to regard male victims of rape negatively (the term used in the literature is generally “homophobic response”).
Incidentally, as for the legal status of the two girls—it wouldn’t be rape. It wouldn’t even be sexual assault. It’s generally classified as sexual battery, and is a misdemeanor in most jurisdictions.