I detest the term “mansplaining” because it conflates gender issues and errors. It’s better to point out actual problems with what’s being said.
As a side issue, though, when I was trying to find out whether mansplaining might refer to something real, I did notice on NPR shows that the people who called in and took up more time by using obvious statements to lay groundwork for their questions were typically men.
Personally, I detest it because it exists in order to avoid having to point out actual problems with what’s being said. It’s a form of ad hominem, really.
In addition, I think the use of “mansplaining” as a signal that just about anything a man can say will be unwelcome. It’s a way of eliminating relevant input, and is more likely to silence men who care about behaving well than those who don’t care.
I think badly of anyone who uses the word as a straightforward description.
This is what I hear as a man when someone uses the word mansplaining. I don’t like being implicitly told that anything I say or think is irrelevant and will be ignored.
I am not at all surprised that men are more likely to exhibit this behavior. Likely for the same reasons men tend to be more adversarial in discussions and debates (on Less Wrong for instance).
I detest the term “mansplaining” because it conflates gender issues and errors. It’s better to point out actual problems with what’s being said.
As a side issue, though, when I was trying to find out whether mansplaining might refer to something real, I did notice on NPR shows that the people who called in and took up more time by using obvious statements to lay groundwork for their questions were typically men.
Personally, I detest it because it exists in order to avoid having to point out actual problems with what’s being said. It’s a form of ad hominem, really.
In addition, I think the use of “mansplaining” as a signal that just about anything a man can say will be unwelcome. It’s a way of eliminating relevant input, and is more likely to silence men who care about behaving well than those who don’t care.
I think badly of anyone who uses the word as a straightforward description.
This is what I hear as a man when someone uses the word mansplaining. I don’t like being implicitly told that anything I say or think is irrelevant and will be ignored.
I am not at all surprised that men are more likely to exhibit this behavior. Likely for the same reasons men tend to be more adversarial in discussions and debates (on Less Wrong for instance).