Does anyone know any good way to make a point that one believes is true on its own merits but clearly benefits the speaker or is easier for the speaker?
Suppose a poor person is saying we should all give more money to poor people, are there ways to mitigate the effect of “You’re only saying that to benefit yourself” beyond either finding someone else without that perceived (and likely actual, but maybe less than perceived) bias or just taking the hit and having a strong enough case to overwhelm that factor?
I’ve noticed that my System 1 automatically discounts arguments made for points that benefit the speaker even more when the speaker sounds either prideful, or like they’re trying to grab status that isn’t due to them, than when the speaker sounds humble.
I’ve also noticed that my System 1 has stopped liking the idea of donating to certain areas of EA quite as much after people who exclusively champion those causes have somehow been abrasive during a conversation I’ve listened to.
Well, provide enough evidence/arguments so that the point stands on its own merit. The general stance is “I’m not asking you to trust me, look at the evidence yourself”.
Yeah, for want of a specific book counter that’s what I figured. But I figured if there WERE a book method to bypass that this is the community that would know, and it’d be worth knowing. Thanks anyway.
The standard “book counter” would be to point out that the objection is a fallacious argumentum ad hominem. However, unless you are in a formal or quasi-formal debate situation or addressing an academic audience, Lumifer’s suggested approach is preferable, IMO.
ETA: I wonder why this was downvoted; it seems like a non-controversial comment that is relevant to the topic.
You’re quite right of course. I’ll probably do both, point out the invalid argument AND have a rock solid argument of my own. Thank you for your input.
Yeah, that’s a good tool if you have it. Of course, I would still have to convince the spokesman. Though I’m not trying to sell that the aliens and gods made the moon out of green cheese so it’s not too hard there.
The first is norm of rational discussion. In those norms people who make statements where they have conflicts of interests disclose those conflicts of interests.
The second way to read “good” is to look at persuasive power. There are various rhetorical stratagies to use to be more persuasive.
I believe my point to be correct and want myself and my interlocutor to agree on the correct answer. Therefore I want both: If we both reach a truth that is not my prior belief, that’s a win, and if I get my interlocutor to agree with a true point that’s a win. If I’m right and fail to get agreement that is a loss, and if I am wrong and get agreement, that is a greater loss.
So basically: I’m greedy. Answers to both questions please :)
From the rhetorical side, you can sometimes gain an edge by starting with a leading question or with stating a problem. “I recently found myself in the unusual position of having some money to spare; so I asked myself, where can this money do the most good?”
Your audience may have any number of answers, but you’ve started by framing the matter in a favorable way (not “can I spare the money”, but “when I have money to spare”, and not “talking about economics” but “talking about morality”). This has the added advantage (or disadvantage) of encouraging alternate solutions… Someone in your audience might make a good argument for AI research, perhaps even convincing you to change your mind :-)
This should be applicable to most arguments: riding bikes (“When we’re looking for ways to be more healthy...”); veganism (“If we are looking for ways to reduce our ecological impact...”); protectionism (“How can we keep Americans in their current jobs?”).
Sliding just a bit more to the dark side, try stating another possibility, preferably one that you suspect that your audience has already heard of and is suspicious of, and then giving good reasons against it. Of course, this requires that you know your audience well enough.
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Does anyone know any good way to make a point that one believes is true on its own merits but clearly benefits the speaker or is easier for the speaker?
Suppose a poor person is saying we should all give more money to poor people, are there ways to mitigate the effect of “You’re only saying that to benefit yourself” beyond either finding someone else without that perceived (and likely actual, but maybe less than perceived) bias or just taking the hit and having a strong enough case to overwhelm that factor?
I’ve noticed that my System 1 automatically discounts arguments made for points that benefit the speaker even more when the speaker sounds either prideful, or like they’re trying to grab status that isn’t due to them, than when the speaker sounds humble.
I’ve also noticed that my System 1 has stopped liking the idea of donating to certain areas of EA quite as much after people who exclusively champion those causes have somehow been abrasive during a conversation I’ve listened to.
This is exactly the kind of thing I meant. Thank you for the reply!
Well, provide enough evidence/arguments so that the point stands on its own merit. The general stance is “I’m not asking you to trust me, look at the evidence yourself”.
Yeah, for want of a specific book counter that’s what I figured. But I figured if there WERE a book method to bypass that this is the community that would know, and it’d be worth knowing. Thanks anyway.
The standard “book counter” would be to point out that the objection is a fallacious argumentum ad hominem. However, unless you are in a formal or quasi-formal debate situation or addressing an academic audience, Lumifer’s suggested approach is preferable, IMO.
ETA: I wonder why this was downvoted; it seems like a non-controversial comment that is relevant to the topic.
You’re quite right of course. I’ll probably do both, point out the invalid argument AND have a rock solid argument of my own. Thank you for your input.
Find a spokesperson.
Yeah, that’s a good tool if you have it. Of course, I would still have to convince the spokesman. Though I’m not trying to sell that the aliens and gods made the moon out of green cheese so it’s not too hard there.
There are two ways to read “good way”.
The first is norm of rational discussion. In those norms people who make statements where they have conflicts of interests disclose those conflicts of interests.
The second way to read “good” is to look at persuasive power. There are various rhetorical stratagies to use to be more persuasive.
That’s a good point; sorry for the ambiguity.
I believe my point to be correct and want myself and my interlocutor to agree on the correct answer. Therefore I want both: If we both reach a truth that is not my prior belief, that’s a win, and if I get my interlocutor to agree with a true point that’s a win. If I’m right and fail to get agreement that is a loss, and if I am wrong and get agreement, that is a greater loss.
So basically: I’m greedy. Answers to both questions please :)
From the rhetorical side, you can sometimes gain an edge by starting with a leading question or with stating a problem. “I recently found myself in the unusual position of having some money to spare; so I asked myself, where can this money do the most good?”
Your audience may have any number of answers, but you’ve started by framing the matter in a favorable way (not “can I spare the money”, but “when I have money to spare”, and not “talking about economics” but “talking about morality”). This has the added advantage (or disadvantage) of encouraging alternate solutions… Someone in your audience might make a good argument for AI research, perhaps even convincing you to change your mind :-)
This should be applicable to most arguments: riding bikes (“When we’re looking for ways to be more healthy...”); veganism (“If we are looking for ways to reduce our ecological impact...”); protectionism (“How can we keep Americans in their current jobs?”).
Sliding just a bit more to the dark side, try stating another possibility, preferably one that you suspect that your audience has already heard of and is suspicious of, and then giving good reasons against it. Of course, this requires that you know your audience well enough.
“This is in my self-interest, I honestly admit that, but trust me it’s still true.”