Oh god.
I have heard several picture criticisms here and from people I know personally. The fact is that I really don’t photograph well. It’s hard enough to find pictures where I have a nice expression and don’t look fat. Good posture and good camera quality—not gonna happen.
I’d message you on the strength of those pictures/profile (assuming I was in the right location/age group).
So I wouldn’t get too down-hearted about people criticising them. This is a thread to suggest improvements, so we are looking for what could be improved.
The picture is funny in a cute way. It looks like you had a severe case of that semi-conscious reflex to assume a “proper” position when someone points a camera at you, so you ended up striking a pose straight from the drill manual. :-) Getting rid of that misleading instinct is a good first step towards making oneself more photogenic.
In any case, look at it as a cost-benefit question. How much do you care about this particular mode of public self-presentation, and how much effort for procuring good photos does this justify? (The easiest way to get some good photos is to hang around those irritating people who relentlessly snap their digital cameras next time you go to a party, and then just ask them to email you the pictures and make a selection out of the huge pile. The best way is to ask someone who has some basic photography skills to snap a few pictures of you.)
When I was taking my senior formals for my high school yearbook, the photographer kept egging me on to smile more. It got really annoying. I WAS smiling! Finally, just to make him knock it off, I plastered on a giant stupid really fake grin. He said “perfect!” and shot it. They came out fantastic.
Oh god. I have heard several picture criticisms here and from people I know personally. The fact is that I really don’t photograph well. It’s hard enough to find pictures where I have a nice expression and don’t look fat. Good posture and good camera quality—not gonna happen.
I’d message you on the strength of those pictures/profile (assuming I was in the right location/age group).
So I wouldn’t get too down-hearted about people criticising them. This is a thread to suggest improvements, so we are looking for what could be improved.
The picture is funny in a cute way. It looks like you had a severe case of that semi-conscious reflex to assume a “proper” position when someone points a camera at you, so you ended up striking a pose straight from the drill manual. :-) Getting rid of that misleading instinct is a good first step towards making oneself more photogenic.
In any case, look at it as a cost-benefit question. How much do you care about this particular mode of public self-presentation, and how much effort for procuring good photos does this justify? (The easiest way to get some good photos is to hang around those irritating people who relentlessly snap their digital cameras next time you go to a party, and then just ask them to email you the pictures and make a selection out of the huge pile. The best way is to ask someone who has some basic photography skills to snap a few pictures of you.)
Tacking on some more photo advice:
When I was taking my senior formals for my high school yearbook, the photographer kept egging me on to smile more. It got really annoying. I WAS smiling! Finally, just to make him knock it off, I plastered on a giant stupid really fake grin. He said “perfect!” and shot it. They came out fantastic.