Rational approach to finding life partners

Speaking from personal experience, finding the right relationship can be HARD. I recently came across a rational take on finding relationship partners, much of which really resonated with my experiences:

http://​​waitbutwhy.com/​​2014/​​02/​​pick-life-partner.html

http://​​waitbutwhy.com/​​2014/​​02/​​pick-life-partner-part-2.html

(I’m still working my way through the Sequences, and lw has more than eight thousand articles with “relationship” in them. I’m not promising the linked articles include unique information)