My employer isn’t gonna allow me to take a couple months off to go do this thing I personally am very interested in
Have you considered asking them about it? I’ve worked at several software jobs where this would have been no problem. I’ve also seen a few people take sabbaticals and there was no issue with it, their teammates generally thought it was really cool. One guy I know took a 1-year sabbatical to live in a van and drive around Europe.
This is all anecdotal and your situation may be different of course. I just wanted to add this data point as it seemed like you may be prematurely dismissing sabbaticals as some crazy thing that never happens in real life.
Have you considered asking them about it? I’ve worked at several software jobs where this would have been no problem. I’ve also seen a few people take sabbaticals and there was no issue with it, their teammates generally thought it was really cool. One guy I know took a 1-year sabbatical to live in a van and drive around Europe.
This is all anecdotal and your situation may be different of course. I just wanted to add this data point as it seemed like you may be prematurely dismissing sabbaticals as some crazy thing that never happens in real life.