I agree with Neil here: if you identify with your flaws, that is bad. By definition. If you are highly analytical and you identify with it, great, regardless of if other people see it as a flaw. Like you said and Neil’s reply in the footnote, if it’s a goal, then it is not a flaw. But if you say it is a personal flaw, then either you shouldn’t be adopting it into your identity (you don’t even have to try to fix it as noble as that would be, but you don’t get to say “I’m the bad-at-math-person, it’s so funny and quirky, and I just led my small business and partners into financial ruin with an arithmetic mistake,” life is not a sit-com) or maybe you don’t really see it as a flaw after all. Either way, something is wrong, either in your priorities or the reliability of your self-reports. And, yeah, this topic involves value judgments. If nothing has valence, then the notion of a flaw would not exist.
I agree with Neil here: if you identify with your flaws, that is bad. By definition. If you are highly analytical and you identify with it, great, regardless of if other people see it as a flaw. Like you said and Neil’s reply in the footnote, if it’s a goal, then it is not a flaw. But if you say it is a personal flaw, then either you shouldn’t be adopting it into your identity (you don’t even have to try to fix it as noble as that would be, but you don’t get to say “I’m the bad-at-math-person, it’s so funny and quirky, and I just led my small business and partners into financial ruin with an arithmetic mistake,” life is not a sit-com) or maybe you don’t really see it as a flaw after all. Either way, something is wrong, either in your priorities or the reliability of your self-reports. And, yeah, this topic involves value judgments. If nothing has valence, then the notion of a flaw would not exist.