If you “use the word that the person in question prefers,” then the word acquires a new meaning. From that moment on, the word “male” means “a human being who prefers to be called ‘male’” and the word “female” means “a human being who prefers to be called ‘female’”. These are surely not the original meaning of the words.
Why do you care about the ‘original’ meaning of the word?
Let’s imagine we are arguing about trees falling in the forest. You are a lumberjack who relies on a piece of fancy expensive equipment that unfortunately tends to break if subjected to accoustic vibrations. You therefore create a map where the word “sound” means accoustic vibrations. This map works well for you and helps you resolve most disguised queries you could be interested in
Then you meet me. i make a living producing cochlear implants. My livelihood depends on making implants that reliably generate the qualia of sound. I therefore have a different map from you, where the word ‘sound’ means the subjective experience in a person’s brain. This works well for the disguised queries that I care about.
If we meet at a cocktail party and you try to convince me that the ‘original’ meaning of sound is accoustic vibrations, this is not a dispute about the territory. What is happening is that you are arguing the primacy of your map over mine, which is a pure status challenge.
The purpose of categories in this context is to facilitate communication, ie transfer of information about the territory from one mind to another. Agreeing on a definition is sometimes important to avoid confusion over what is being said. However, if there is no such confusion, insisting on one definition over another is a pure monkey status game
Most common terms will, when used in a context that doesn’t imply a specific meaning, be taken by the listener to imply a default meaning. Furthermore, some contexts do imply a meaning, but only weakly; if the context makes slightly more sense with meaning A, but you know that most people default to meaning B, and you are Bayseian, you should infer that the intended meaning was B.
Caring about the “original meaning of the word” is about this default meaning, and is not nonsensical. If I say that this person is female, without qualifiers such as “genetically female”, what will others understand me as saying? Will what they understand me as saying be more or less accurate than if I refer to them as male?
If you “use the word that the person in question prefers,” then the word acquires a new meaning. From that moment on, the word “male” means “a human being who prefers to be called ‘male’” and the word “female” means “a human being who prefers to be called ‘female’”. These are surely not the original meaning of the words.
Why do you care about the ‘original’ meaning of the word?
Let’s imagine we are arguing about trees falling in the forest. You are a lumberjack who relies on a piece of fancy expensive equipment that unfortunately tends to break if subjected to accoustic vibrations. You therefore create a map where the word “sound” means accoustic vibrations. This map works well for you and helps you resolve most disguised queries you could be interested in
Then you meet me. i make a living producing cochlear implants. My livelihood depends on making implants that reliably generate the qualia of sound. I therefore have a different map from you, where the word ‘sound’ means the subjective experience in a person’s brain. This works well for the disguised queries that I care about.
If we meet at a cocktail party and you try to convince me that the ‘original’ meaning of sound is accoustic vibrations, this is not a dispute about the territory. What is happening is that you are arguing the primacy of your map over mine, which is a pure status challenge.
The purpose of categories in this context is to facilitate communication, ie transfer of information about the territory from one mind to another. Agreeing on a definition is sometimes important to avoid confusion over what is being said. However, if there is no such confusion, insisting on one definition over another is a pure monkey status game
Most common terms will, when used in a context that doesn’t imply a specific meaning, be taken by the listener to imply a default meaning. Furthermore, some contexts do imply a meaning, but only weakly; if the context makes slightly more sense with meaning A, but you know that most people default to meaning B, and you are Bayseian, you should infer that the intended meaning was B.
Caring about the “original meaning of the word” is about this default meaning, and is not nonsensical. If I say that this person is female, without qualifiers such as “genetically female”, what will others understand me as saying? Will what they understand me as saying be more or less accurate than if I refer to them as male?